Does God Force All Truly Born Again People To Live Right ?

In trying to reply to all the verses that clearly prove "once saved always saved" is false, many (but not all) will suggest that if a person falls away, that proves he was never saved to begin with. In other words, he becomes a robot. He couldn't quit serving God even if he wanted to. But let's examine just a few of the passages to prove this theory false.Is Heb 3:1,12 talking about true believers, or are unbelievers holy brethren and partakers of the heavenly calling?Is Rev 3:5 talking about true believers, or did God write the names of lost people into the book of life?Is I Cor 8:11 talking about true believers, or did Christ die for unbelievers?Is Rom 14:15,23 talking about true believers, or did Christ die for unbelievers?Is II Peter 2:1 talking about true believers, or did the Lord buy untrue believers?(the above three questions work especially well with Calvinists)Is II Peter 2:20-22 talking about true believers, or do unbelievers escape the sins of the world through the knowledge of Christ?Was James inspired when he called people brethren in James 5:19-20, or was he wrong and therefore the Bible is not inerrant?